At only 17 years old, Kai was experiencing family relationship breakdown and struggling with his mental health. That’s when Kai became homeless.
“I was freshly 17 and I was experiencing some stuff with my family that wasn’t very healthy, said Kai.”
That’s when Kai got linked in with Uniting.
“My Uniting worker got me into a respite room in Croydon, where I stayed for six months. Then I moved into a Transitional (THM) home with Uniting,” said Kai.
“Uniting was pretty awesome. They gave me funding to get a laptop, a bed and bed sheets, a doona. They got me clothes, so I could work and didn’t have to look awful.
“I was at the Uniting food bank often, once every other week to get food and vouchers. It was really good, because I was so stressed about everything, and I couldn’t afford anything,” said Kai.
Many housing options for young people are short term, from six weeks to two years, depending on the program. Transitional housing programs with Uniting are generally for 12 months. Kai experienced the impact of living in this state of uncertainty firsthand.
“Even being in my transitional home with Uniting, it didn’t feel very stable because it was only for a year. I struggled with alcoholism. I felt like I couldn’t settle anywhere,” said Kai.
Kai recently moved into a private rental. A share house with 10 other people.
“The biggest thing is landlords deliberately not choosing young people to live in their private rentals, because they think they can’t afford rent. So that leaves us with no options. It sucks. The best I can do right now is a shitty share house that’s falling apart on us” said Kai.
Kai is passionate about helping improve housing systems and creating housing options for young people. Since 2023, Kai has been involved as a Consumer Partner with Uniting’s Resident Advisory Panel (URAP), a platform for Uniting residents to use their lived experience to influence change.
“The URAP has helped me a lot to have a purpose. When I didn’t have anything going for me, I had URAP. It allowed me to feel human. Living in constant transition, or shitty accommodation, it takes away so much of your humanity.”
For Kai, the hardship he has faced has made him stronger.
“When you’re thrown into the deep end without any choice, and you have no one to turn to… it teaches you independence and makes you quite strong,” says Kai.
*This is a true story about real people. The photo accompanying this story is for illustrative purposes only. It is not a photo of the people featured in this story.